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Who says you can't?

\"Sounds like a commitment issue.\"
\"Aren't you worried about jealousy?\" \"Are you just missing something from your current relationship?\"

These are things that I've personally heard when I opened up about my non-monogamous love life. Meanwhile, I have had some of the best communication and connections than I ever have before.

This is not to say that monogamy is not a valid choice for people that prefer it. This is a celebration of love in its full spectrum.

If you haven't been told yet(or often enough), you can have your cake and eat it too.

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In the first episode of Have Your Cake and Eat it Too, I talk about insights from popular research on non-monogamy in America, an overview of my journey into solo polyamory and my goal to support anyone navigating alternative relationships.

Music by SoulProdMusic and Denis-Pavlov-Music from Pixabay

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Episode 1: Coming Out as Non-Monogamous

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